Tips for newbies

Newbies
If all goes well and you have spent some time and effort getting it right, my belief is that when a D/s relationship is just right you will know inside, it is a feeling in your heart, body, mind and soul – There is nothing more special – and from there your development is assured.
A good Dom will want you to develop at a pace which is right for you, maybe with a few nudges here and there!
It's all about Trust !!! And more Trust !!!

First: If you have met someone on line that you think you may want to meet – firstly ask others about them.

Find out who they are, where they live, get a phone number and CHECK IT OUT!!!! If the Dom is serious they will give you this information. If they don't want to give you this information, get out quick!

Then find a reliable friend or more experienced person WHO YOU CAN TRUST! And give them the information.

For your safety and that of the Dom - Never meet a Dom alone without a safe call being set up! Arrange to be called at odd intervals throughout the meeting and have a safe word in case you need help, let your friend know where you are at all times and when U leave.
Don't arrange to play on a first meeting.

An important question in this lifestyle when meeting new people is – WHY ????
I always ask myself that question these days.
Why does someone want to do this?
How will it help me?
Is this purely for their benefit or is it for my further development?