Are there any rights and wrongs

I have watched and listened for well over a year now, in the room and in private chats,
Are there any Rights and Wrongs in Bdsm??
Everyone has there own way of doing things, As Trickz stated in the previous post
Lately there seems to be alot of controversy among our group...
Ok so what i don't understand .......still..........Dom/Domme'........Master/Slave
subbie.............whatever.............Aren't we human first...........People...Friends...
Mothers...Daughters.....Dads....Sons............I don't get it......why the big uproar
I for one...........don't care who is Domme'.......or slave/subbie.......or even Dom
Don't mean a damn thing to me..........first and foremost...........YOU are HUMAN!!!!
and if you have to primp and preen and SHOW how Dominant you are....Then are you really
Dominant as All ???
Just my opinion........:)
Don't Burn your Bridges
Peach

Trickz Philosophy

Seeing as how many will undoubtedly ask, I thought I might as well go about explaining my views on things. And it should be noted that this is but one view among many, So to each their Own. First off, don't let anyone tell you your doing it all wrong. We are all different, the trick is to find what works for you and your partner. Note that i said partner, because for me, its not about an acquisition of playmates, but the building of a harmonious long term relationship. Some call themselves Dom others use Master; the same with Sub or slave. I favor the terms Master / slave. The reason is because I define Master/slave as more true followers of a discipline and Dom/ Sub are more into the play part. I'm sure that statement will cause an uproar but like I said...this is MY view and maybe it will become more clear as I explain why I feel this way. Doms/subs will play with most any willing partners that they find agreeable to there terms, or it at least looks that way to me. As a Master, I have chosen and taken my slave, and yes..just one. She is not a slave in the usual sense, but rather is enslaved by her love and devotion for me. This bond is what makes it all work, I am her Master, she serves only me. I am Master because I have mastered myself first, defined my philosophy, know who and what I am, and what I want. I am HER Master, because pleasing me, keeping me content, pleased and proud of her is the driving force in her life. She is by no means a doormat, her feelings and needs are taken care of by me, As any good owner would treat his most prized possession with the utmost love and caring, so then my slave is adored. Its a beautiful symbiotic relationship, My every wish is her command, when she see's me pleased and happy, then she too is happy. And as I am made to feel her love for me, my love for her grows, she is happy..because she KNOWS she is loved. I am happy, because I KNOW I am loved. She takes care of my want, I take care of her need. Some might wonder just how far does the power of being her Master go, well..Let me say that she would do anything I asked, But would a Master who loves his most prized possession, abuse that power? I'd have to say NO. I would never ask her to do something that would cause her any distress either physical or emotional, that my friend is what being a Master is, knowing where and when to push, knowing the limits of power, and taking her needs into full account. These are the traits that earn me her devotion, and love. I would much rather have her undying devotion based on love, than her blind obedience based on fear. Now would this work for anyone...perhaps...but it does work for us.

Peach had alot of......questions

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